
Vibrations With your own vibrations of peace and happiness, give everyone else the experience of happiness and comfort.

Vibrations With your own vibrations of peace and happiness, give everyone else the experience of happiness and comfort.

I thought I’d share a few thoughts today, kind of a “what I’ve learned in the past 10 years” post. This list was refined and crystallized by the process of writing the book, but this list was also a major reason why I wrote it in the first place. I saw so many people struggling, and witnessed so many abuses in so many forums, that I wanted to try to put down the lessons and truths I had found in a concrete format. True, there is no one way to trade, and many different approaches can be successful in the market, so long as they are aligned with some fundamental truths. These are some of those fundamental and undeniable truths, as I have come to understand them over the course of my trading career:

Choices
Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It’s your choice how you live life.
The problem: A lot of people come to ask you although not necessary. A problem that usually only a few people in a company have – but these few know it very well: They are known to have good knowledge in a lot of areas or have good knowledge about the company and it’s organization or environment. And so they get asked often and therefore get interrupted very often in their main work.
What often surprises most is that a lot of answers could have been easily found online (Google, Wikipedia, company intranet sites, e-mail in-boxes or archives and so on).
The reason: You are the most efficient way to solve their problems. When they look up the information somewhere else they have to think more and it takes longer. And maybe they at first have to think first where to look up (first). As they usually know already your phone extension or have their chair next to you it is the easiest, fastest, most efficient – and maybe also most reliable way to ask you.
Although this might be part of your daily job and might be a good motivation being such an esteemed person it may grow to a level where you cannot do your main job efficiently because you have too many other “little problems” to solve or “little questions” to answer.

The solution: Let them wait. If you let them wait a little for answers you are not the most efficient way for those little questions and problems that interrupt you more often. When they have to wait they will maybe “in the meantime” get an idea where to look up the information themselves getting there solution faster. – And the problem get solved without you.
If there are questions coming often not so easy to look up for them then write a documentation and publish it (on the internet or intranet or some wherever your company usually stores such information). When these questions come again you simply tell them to look it up. If your standard answer is “Look it up in our repository” it is even less attractive for them to call you because they could have looked up immediately without calling you.

There are mainly three different trading approaches:
1. Trend trading (often long-term oriented)
2. Swing trading (often mid-term oriented)
3. Scalp trading (short term oriented)
Of course it is possible to trade in every of these fashions, but for starters this can be really difficult and it is better, in my opinion, to choose one of them. This is due to the fact, that they have very different characteristics, which I will elaborate on in the following.
Trend trading:
This approach is mostly longer-term oriented, although some of you might say, you can also follow a trend on the basis of a 30-minute chart. Of course, you can! But for me these short-term movements are more a directional bias than a real trend. Think of this: On a 30-minute chart you have identified a trend (higher lows). Switching to a 4-hour chart can then perhaps show you, that this is just a correction from the underlying trend. So for me “real” trend trading is more long-term oriented, starting with approximately 1-day until several weeks. This trading style should fit people which like to hit “big winners” and can afford to have many “smaller losers.” You see this is also some kind of philosophy question you have to ask yourself! Can you personally take many small losses in your account (because this is what it mostly takes) AND can you let your profits run? For me personally –especially in the beginning of my trading career – this was quite difficult! Constantly taking these small losses, even though overall you are profitable, can really get into your head, causing you to make wrong decisions. But if you can say for yourself, that you can handle this stress, trend trading is possibly one of the most rewarding trading techniques. The advantages are that it is quite easy to learn and to execute, and that it needs not that much actual time at a PC.
HEARING uses just the earsWe HEAR a lot of “stuff;” everything from the traffic going by our windows at night to the sound of a baby laughing in the park, to the radio in our car when we drive to work. However, we do not always LISTEN.
LISTENING uses the head and the heart.Most sounds do not require that we listen; therefore we don’t. However, if you’re dealing with someone that matters to you (whether that’s a co-worker, client, or life-partner), you want to make sure you LISTEN, not just HEAR. It’s important to remember, that unlike hearing, listening is a two-way process.
Listening well is an undervalued skill. Learn it and watch how many fewer conflicts you get into and how much happier you are.